| Dimensions | Essential Human Needs | Essential Parenting Skills | PARENTING AND REPARENTING | Traits & Skills Developed | When Needs are Met | |
| 1 |  | Security | Protection | ensuring safety and comfort by providing a home that is clean, dry, safe, and warm | Responsibility | Responsible |
| 2 |  | Vitality | Limits | Responsible | Self-Care | Energetic |
| 3 |  | Purpose | Guidance | finding the origin of negative tendencies admitting faults, initiating positive changes | Self-Esteem | Confident |
| 4 |  | Freedom | Boundaries | listening nonjudgmentally, allowing feelings affirming boundaries, allowing choice | Creativity | Respected |
| 5 |  | Connection | Gratitude | creating a sense of belonging for each member of the family, putting family first | Love | Accepted |
| 6 |  | Power | Empowerment | supporting goals, empowering progress making family decisions together | Equality | Valued |
| 7 |  | Peace | Empathy | seeking mutually satisfying resolutions willing to compromise and be reasonable | Compassion | Trusted |
