12. Build Trust

Just when you decide he is not good for you he makes a zig zag. He makes a kind gesture that causes you to question yourself. However, this kindness is short-lived, designed to confuse you. Different men abuse in different ways, but the one thing they all have in common: they are confusing. They swing like a pendulum and then bring up his good moments in his defense so he doesn’t have to feel bad about the hurtful things he does.